Nicodemus: From Darkness to Light, Filled With the Spirit
03-01-2026 Rev, Jan Remer-Osborne

John 3:1-17 Sermon: Nicodemus: From Darkness to Light, Filled with the Spirit
Today’s gospel is momentous. These verses describe the path from unbelief to belief in Jesus Christ. Filled with symbolism, it is the story of each of our own journeys to faith.
Nicodemus comes to Jesus at night. This detail is important. Yes, it is safer to visit a radical teacher in the dark of the night. This darkness also reflects where Nicodemus is spiritually, He is educated, respected, devout. A Pharisee. Despite this his curiosity is peaked. Something in Jesus unsettles him enough to risk this quiet, private visit.
Nicodemus begins politely: "Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher who has come from God; for no one can do these signs that you do unless God is with that person." Nicodemus witnessed miracles but could not believe his own eyes, he wasn’t ready to receive the witness of Jesus. Faith, as well as being called to do God’s work, often begins that way—not with conviction, but with a question that refuses to go away.
Jesus does not engage in small talk, he goes straight to the heart of the matter: “Very truly, I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God without being born from above.”
Nicodemus hears this and responds with honest confusion. “How can anyone be born after having grown old?” This is not mockery. The Evangelical scholar Luke Timothy Johnson points out that Nicodemus is thinking logically. He assumes that spiritual growth works the same way everything else does—step by step, improvement over time, building on what already exists. He is not too different from us. We can attend Sunday School, church, read scripture which provides a foundation for our beliefs. But until the Holy Spirit enters us, we are not born again in Christ.
Jesus gently but firmly points this out. What we humans do is born of the flesh. Only the Spirit creates the spirit within us. Our efforts and religious studies have limits and are unable to generate the life of God. Only God can do that.
Then Jesus turns to the image of the wind. “The wind blows where it chooses. You hear the sound of it, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes.”
The Greek word here—pneuma—means wind, breath, and Spirit all at once. For Nicodemus, schooled in Jewish laws, tradition and ritual, this would be nerve wracking. Wind cannot be controlled. It does not submit to any authority, it cannot be predicted. And neither does the Spirit of God. This unpredictability would make churches like ours nervous because we too
hold onto tradition, liturgy, theology, and order, especially as regards our finances.
Nicodemus asks the most honest question in the story: “How can these things be?” Jesus answers by reaching back into Israel’s own memory. “Just as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, so must the Son of Man be lifted up.”
And then we hear words so familiar that we risk letting them slide past us: “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son…” (John 3:16) This verse is crystal clear. God doesn’t love a special few, a particular race, or even those who believe already.
John is very specific. Hear this. Salvation is not passing a test or even being certain in one’s beliefs. It is described as receiving the Spirit.
Which brings us back to Nicodemus. He does not suddenly burst into confident faith that night. He does not pray a prayer or make a public declaration. He leaves with questions still unanswered. And that matters. Because later in John’s Gospel, Nicodemus appears again—once defending Jesus cautiously in public, and finally showing up at the cross with spices for burial, stepping fully into the light at last. New birth, it seems, can take time.
And that may be the most relevant understanding we get from Nicodemus.
Because many of us come to church like Nicodemus came to Jesus—quietly, thoughtfully, maybe a little uncertain. Some of us believe deeply but feel tired. Some of us have doubts we rarely say out loud. Some of us wonder whether faith still has room for us after all these years. Some of us are not even sure we believe at all, but something keeps drawing us back. Jesus does not shame Nicodemus for his questions. He does not send him away until he figures it all out. He invites him to trust—to allow God’s Spirit to do what human effort cannot.
To be born from above is not to obliterate or take away your story. It is to let God breathe new life into it. It is not about starting over from nothing. It is about receiving what you cannot manufacture for yourself. And what is that? The Holy Spirit.
For those who feel skeptical, unsure, or standing at the edges of belief, this passage offers gentle mercy. God’s love does not wait till we’ve got it together. God’s love meets us in the dark. The Spirit moves before we understand, before we are ready, before we are certain.
The wind blows where it chooses.
Sometimes that wind sounds like a question that won’t go away. Should I devote my life to God? Sometimes it sounds like a longing you cannot name. I feel so empty, I don’t know what to do or where to turn? Sometimes it sounds like a quiet hope that maybe—just maybe—the Spirit can take me places I am afraid to go.
The good news is this: God did not send the Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save it. Which means that wherever you are today—confident or confused, faithful or wondering, certain or still searching—you are not outside the reach of God’s love. This is amazing, yes? The Holy Spirit and the light of Christ brings us into a new life, a new creation. How awesome is this? Thanks be to God. Amén
Wright, N. T. John for Everyone, Part 1: Chapters 1–10. London: SPCK; Louisville: Westminster John Knox, 2004.
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